What makes us believe that we deserve to have a perfect partner in life?
It's a myth.
In any relationship, you have a long list and a short list. The long list are those attributes that really count; the ones that feed your inner spirit, make you delighted and feel loved daily, give you peace, contribute to your wellbeing, make you laugh, turn you on, make you dinner, uplift you, and give you unconditional love... the kind of love you weren't expecting... but blindsides you with a certain something you can't quite express.
The short list consists of things that mean nothing... like tardiness, sloppiness, laziness, forgetfulness, or not being able to read your mind because you forgot to tell them your truth... they may be powerless to the games that you served them in their morning coffee during your latest, irrelevant bitchfest.
Your inner needs aren't met because they aren't as perfect as you think they should be.
Fuck the short list. Once you learn to do that... you may get the partner you deserve. Then, and only then will you evolve beyond your aloneness.
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